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Title
Beyond the Norm of Monogamy – Consensual Non-monogamy as an Example of a ‘Post-modern’ Relationship?Journal title
Studia SocjologiczneYearbook
2023Issue
No 3Affiliation
Lipnicka, Magdalena : Katolicki Uniwersytet Lubelski Jana Pawła IIAuthors
Keywords
consensual non-monogamy ; postmodernity ; semantics of love ; relational anarchyDivisions of PAS
Nauki Humanistyczne i SpołeczneCoverage
159-178Publisher
Instytut Filozofii i Socjologii PAN ; Komitet Socjologii PAN ; Wydział Socjologii UWBibliography
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